My friend was a volunteer at Banbury Young Homelessness Project, a young person initiative set up to support young people and their families in times of strife. They advise on how to get funds, education on key skills in home economics and the workplace, and an immense amount of support for those of us who struggle to keep our chin up when there doesn’t seem to be an obvious answer to the challenges life throws at us.
Before I had the children full time, BYHP helped me find a place to live with an amazing landlord who also did a lot for the youth in the community. When I had the children, it was obvious where I needed to turn for answers. BYHP ran many sessions throughout the week such as Positive Parenting on a Thursday morning, where I met other young single parents in a similar situation as me. Although I was the only single Dad amongst them, we all had something in common. We grew stronger together as we realised we weren’t alone in our journey. Other sessions included cooking, budgeting and home skills with the WI (Women’s Institute). BYHP assisted in watching the boys whilst I used the office phone to liaise with my support groups and tax credits. We lived off crisis loans for 2 months before the tax credits started. Nappies are not cheap and I needed formula due to my inability to produce essential milk.